When it comes to finding our best possible match, we’ll date, we’ll explore relationships, and we’ll try to give things a shot when we feel that a person or situation is promising. When you’re with the right person, as opposed to when you’re with someone that’s just a good match, the feeling is different. I’ve written before about the difference between a good match and a good catch. I decided to create a list that could expand on that idea, and shed some more light onto everyone as far as what the differences are from being a good match and being with the right person. When I say “the right person,” I’m referring to your best possible match.
Your best possible match is not just someone that you’ll experience a healthy and happy relationship with. But more so, someone that you’d consider to be your twin flame, your other half, your soulmate, or even your missing piece. You can’t ever expect that anything in life will be perfect. But what you can expect, or at least what you should expect is a sense of peace. There’s something truly peaceful that happens to someone the moment that they meet the right match. With the right person, things naturally flow. As well, that honeymoon type of feeling that you’ll experience will not only be present, but it will last. The excitement and joy for life will be illuminated by the power of intense love that you feel for one another. You’ll feel relieved, excited, and breathless all at the same time.
To find the right person, you need to do a few things. You need to be open to falling in love, you need to risk getting hurt, and you need to take down whatever wall or emotional barrier that you might’ve created from previous relationships or experiences, and completely let that hurt go. You need to know what you want, know what works for you, and what doesn’t in a relationship. Lastly, you need to be able to differentiate from someone who’s a good catch, a good match, and the right person for you.
Here’s the list:
1. You stop searching
You don’t view the grass as being greener elsewhere. But you embrace the grass you’re on, viewing it as perfect. You appreciate what you have, and know that you’ve found the one.
2. Things naturally flow
Things naturally flow and feel balanced. No one pressures the other. But instead, you tend to be on the same page, and go at the same pace. You feel at ease in their presence, instead of nervous, uncomfortable, or uneasy in any way.
3. The honeymoon type of feeling lasts
True love doesn’t fade over time and years. But instead, it changes and evolves into something in which the beauty and love that you share with one another expands and grows into something more beautiful and meaningful.
4. They “get you” without you having to explain
They will love everything about you, and view your imperfections as perfections. Nothing you say will shock them or take them by surprise as far as your personality is concerned. You connect with ease on many different levels. You naturally become best friends.
5. You can imagine growing old with them
You see them as your future. You want the same things in life, and in your future. You imagine creating with them, and even to the point of having children together.
6. They view you as their beginning, their now, and their end
It hits home that your life has just begun. Everything before this moment you both suddenly view differently. You’ll view your life as if everything led up to this point. You’ll immediately comprehend why no other relationship has worked out. Your biggest experience of love will diminish, and this experience will overpower it, and be much greater.
7. You connect on many different levels
You have many common interests. Even if you don’t share all of the same hobbies and interests, you’re interested and open to learning, growing, and sharing with each other.
8. Your attraction, fire, and chemistry are all intense and powerful
Your attraction is deep, full, and based on a spiritual connection. Your attraction to them is beyond superficial or skin deep.
9. Communication and conversation flows
There won’t be many uncomfortable silences. You communicate openly, freely, and comfortably. Like everything else between you, things flow, and feel natural. You have great communication, but you can nearly read their minds.
10. You just know…
As powerful as words are, there are no words to describe the feeling. You both immediately connect in a way that’s so deep, so real, and so promising that you both just know that this is the one.
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