There are always things that you can do to spice up your love life. But sometimes, we simply run out of ideas. That’s why wanted to create a list of easy things you can do to spice up your love life, improve your relationships, and as Donald Trump would say, make your relationship great again.
1. Do Something Your Partner Wants to Do
In relationships, it’s all a matter of give and take, and there should be a healthy balance between what you want and what your partner wants. This includes everything from where you go to eat, what you’re having for dinner, to the plans that you make with one another. You should both feel satisfied and happy in your relationship, and do things that you both like to do. But one thing that you can do to improve your relationship, is go out of your way and do something that your partner wants to do, and especially, when it’s something that you might not like to do. When you do so, remember to do so from your heart, and without bringing it up, as if you’re doing them a big favor. That way, your partner will appreciate it much more.
2. Be Selfless and Giving
Sometimes, without even thinking about it, we become selfish in relationships and want what we want, and prefer to do the things that we want to do. Like I just said in number two, it’s important to do something that your partner wants to do at times, and to go out of your way as such, even when it’s something that you don’t like to do. But just as well, any selfless and giving act that you can do for your partner will truly benefit your relationship, and your relationship will thrive because of those kind acts.
For example, do something that you feel is important to your partner. Something that perhaps they’ve told you is important to them, and it can be anything that you know your partner will appreciate. It can be anything from being kind to his or her family, spending time with their family, helping out around the house, or even doing little favours that your partner might’ve asked you to do.
Sometimes, you can even do something that you know your partner wants you to do, but that they’re tired of asking you to do. And at times, simply remembering what your partner had requested, without having to be reminded over, and over, will be just as appreciated, as if you’d bought them flowers or bought them a gift of some sort. Many times, things can be inconvenient for us to do, but when we put a little extra effort and love into our partner, and desire them to be happier, then we should be willing to do what it takes, and that means being selfless and giving as much as possible. Yes, being selfless and giving in the bedroom is a big part of having a happy love life.
3. Do Sweet Gestures ‘Just Because’
You shouldn’t need to have a reason why you’re doing something nice for your partner. And it definitely shouldn’t have to be a holiday, an anniversary, or even a birthday in order to do something sweet for your partner. Doing sweet gestures and kind acts are things that should be done throughout your relationship, and even throughout your lives with one another.
As well, if you’re in a marriage, and you’ve likely been with your partner for many, many years, you should do sweet gestures even more than you did during early dating, and when you were in a relationship. There should never be a reason or motive for doing kind things for your partner. We can always find ways to make our partner smile and feel happier, and that’s why doing sweet gestures is important to make relationships great.
4. Improve on Your Romance, Closeness, and Intimacy
Everyone can use a little romance to spice up their love life. But the longer that we’re in a relationship with someone, the more that couples tend to get used to their partner. And spicing things up in a romantic way can definitely improve your relationship. As well, the same goes for intimacy and closeness. Even the warmth of an embrace, a hug, and holding hands more often, can greatly improve your relationship. And when it comes to anything in the bedroom, remember to keep things interesting, spice things up, and remember the keyword “variety.”
Don’t be boring in the bedroom, when it comes to romance, and definitely try to avoid turning your back on your partner when you sleep next to them. Instead, hold your partner in your arms until he or she falls asleep. And this isn’t directed towards men in any way, because women can hold their man just as much as a man can hold their woman. Hold each other, give each other warmth and comfort, and melt in one another’s arms. Don’t make excuses for why there’s not enough closeness or for why you can’t sleep when your partner gets too close to you at night. Closeness is everything in a relationship. And when you put a little extra effort into becoming closer and more affectionate, your relationship will definitely thrive, and both people will tend to be much more satisfied.
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