When singles are in the dating scene and looking to find someone that they can share their life with, they’re basically hoping to find their best possible match. When we’re looking for our best possible match, many particular things should be present in our search. One thing that we can all likely agree on is that someone should bring out the best in us. As well, we can all probably agree with the fact that a partner in life should want us to grow and be best person that we can be. But, one thing that many times we all overlook is whether or not a person adds to our life.
When someone isn’t adding anything good into your life, then they’re likely taking away from it in certain ways. We should all be our partner’s biggest fan. That’s part of being a best friend and a great partner. Many times people bring out the worst in us, and those are definitely the types to avoid in relationships. That goes for friendships, as well as romantic relationships. The last thing that any of us should be okay with is to be with someone that brings out the worst in us all of the time. Self-improvement and being the best version of ourselves is imperative for our own being, and in regards to our relationships.
A truly good partner in life should make us feel happy inside. We obviously need to be a whole person ourselves, and one that knows our self worth before anyone else can truly love and appreciate us. However, if someone doesn’t value who we are as a person, and respect our moral values and beliefs, they’re not showing us respect. It’s important to show your partner respect, despite whether you agree on everything. We’re all entitled to have our own opinions and beliefs, and we definitely do not need to agree on everything. But despite a couple’s differences, they should love and respect each other, and know how to communicate their feelings by still listening to their partner’s views and opinions on things, and even at times when they don’t agree on things.
When someone is the right match for us, and as I’d like to call them, our best possible match in life, they’re going to have our best interests at heart. Our best match is going to make us feel alive, and even more complete than we thought that we were before having met them. When you’re in the right relationship, it brings a whole new sense of what being a whole person actually means. You know that you’re truly in love with a person when you want what’s best for them, even if it leaves you with the short end of a stick at times.
A person that truly values, loves, and respects you is going to make you a better person simply by being with them. They’ll do so by adding to your life in the most beautiful of ways. They’re going to be a true partner, a best friend, and their actions and words will be actions of true love. The right person for you is going to walk beside you, hand in hand, and help you by teaching you things, as well as being able to learn from you. Loving, healthy, and happy relationships involve two people that desire to grow as a couple, and as a team. Happy couples bring out the best in one another, learn from each other, and add to each others lives. When they do so, they’ll be able to reach for the stars, and thrive in a positive light towards becoming more enlightened people as individuals, and as a couple.
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