Creating a Motivated Mentality


We all get motivated by different things. But unfortunately, sometimes we let people take ahold of our emotions to the point where we give them the power to deflate our mood, and make us feel bad. When we give people the power to change the way that we feel and to bring us from a good and happy mood where we feel uplifted, motivated, optimistic, and full of positive energy to a place where we feel little to no enthusiasm, and all around, in a really bad mood, we’ll end up feeling miserable.


Nothing feels worse than when you start your day off in a bad mood. We all have a choice every day whether or not we want to be in a good mood or a bad mood. We have to be resilient to the point where we don’t let outside influences or even negative people where they themselves are in a bad mood, affect us in a negative manner. It’s important to go into each and every day with a positive attitude, where we can strive hard and feel motivated towards becoming successful in whatever we’re hoping to achieve in life.


We should all be able to inspire ourselves. But at times, we get affected by others around us. And we can either get even more inspired than we already feel, or we can let ourselves get negatively influenced, and let ourselves get affected where we lose even our own inspiration. Again, it’s important not to let others deflate are positive light, love, and energy. You can never get enough inspiration in life. And if you feel inspired and motivated to do good, or even to conquer the world, and that’s your mentality, then never, and I mean never give someone the opportunity or the chance at bringing you down on any level.


It’s important to have a game plan, and not merely to have certain goals. Having goals alone is not enough. Once you have that game plan, then you’re going to need to surround yourself with positive people that are also somewhat driven and motivated towards achieving their own goals. It’s always better to have friends and family in your life that are going to uplift your spirits, and help motivate you when you’re in a rut or feeling less inspired. This is what good friends and family do for one another. And that’s why it’s always good to have enlightened individuals closer to you.


We should all try to be a little more selfless when it comes to motivating and inspiring others, instead of putting them down when they’re in a lazy mood or when they find themselves in their downtime. It’s one thing to take a moment to relax, to refresh, rejuvenate, and to take a break once in awhile. And it’s another thing, when people start getting lazy, and feeling uninspired or unmotivated when it comes to striving towards their goals.


The only way to get what you want in life is to go after it. And when you go after what you want, you should feel so driven, that you’re nearly on fire, and to the point where you’ll stop at nothing until you achieve your goals. We should never give someone the power to take away our drive or momentum. You can never get too much motivation, so if you feel as if surrounding yourself with other motivated people will benefit you, you’re most likely right, because to some extent, the people that we surround ourselves with our likely similar to us in different ways, and that’s most likely why we’re attracted to them in the first place.


If you want to feel more driven and inspired in life, then develop a certain mentality where you jump out of bed each morning, viewing everything  as an opportunity to take advantage of. Don’t think for one second that laying in bed and soaking up a few more minutes will bring you closer towards your goals or that it will leave you feeling more energized and motivated, because it won’t. Being lazy, and stalling your day to begin is one bad habit that unfortunately, many of us choose. We can change that, starting now. Wake up, jump out of bed, and turn on your inner fire. Today is going to be a great day!

Anne Cohen

Founder, Owner, Writer, and Editor at Anne Cohen Writes
Anne Cohen is a lifestyle and relationship blogger based in Los Angeles, CA. Her blogs are Anne Cohen and Anne Cohen Writes. She contributes to various publications including The Huffington Post, Elite Daily, and many more. She's passionate about love, writing, chess, and more than anything, her two kids.

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