When it comes to making another person happy, there’s only so much that you can do. A person needs to feel happy and as a whole person themselves. No one can give another person the type of happiness that can resonate to their soul and create inner peace within them, the way that they can themselves. Many times people have their own issues, hangups, and things that they need to deal with on their own. You can’t alter anyone else’s mood or change the way that other people think or feel, and you really shouldn’t even bother trying. You simply can’t change people, and you should accept them for how they are, as is (click here).
We should all be happy with ourselves, feel confident, and love life to an extent that we can accept and embrace the love of another person. If we don’t love ourselves enough, we likely won’t let anyone else love us either. As well, we’re not going to feel worthy or deserving of being loved by anyone. The truth is, if we don’t have a good enough self-esteem or feel that we’re worthy of love, we’re not going to let anyone get very close to us, and definitely not on a deeper level. To fall in love, and I’m talking about the kind of love where you can’t get enough of it, you need to be willing to accept love, embrace it, and absorb every bit of intense passion that someone might will feel towards you.
Unfortunately, many times people are unaware that they can’t fully embrace what real love is, and they might even feel that they’ve never experienced true love before. The cause for those types of feelings are usually something deep down within that person, and at such a deep level that they might not even realize there’s an issue. When someone has those types of feelings, and can even say that over a lifetime they hadn’t experienced true love, many times the route to that issue was that they consciously or subconsciously didn’t feel worthy of it. Feeling worthy of being loved is about self-worth, and knowing that you deserve to experience love.
Each and every one of us deserves love from people that we meet. We can’t control others, or the world around us. But, what we can control is our own actions, our own thoughts, and things that we believe to be true. Despite how your life has gone up until this point, and despite the belief system that you might’ve had until now, it’s imperative to realize and understand that you deserve to feel love, to embrace it, and to experience what true love is all about. We all deserve to experience finding a wonderful partner in life that will love us unconditionally. In order to do so, you need to know your worth and that you’re deserving of love, so that when it appears, you’ll be ready to embrace it.
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