Everyone desires closeness, and whether a person desires to casually date, explore a relationship, or simply be social, it’s important to know what you want so that your intentions will be pure. It’s important to be honest with others as far as your intentions go, so that you can both be on the same page and feel comfortable in a situation. It’s never good to mislead others into thinking that you want more with them than you actually do. We should treat people in the same manner in which we hope to be treated by others. This way we can avoid being in complicated situations, as well as avoid hurting other people.
When it comes to people who are looking for something long-term and meaningful, and especially when they desire to eventually settle down and get married, it’s important to be with your best possible match. Your best possible match should be someone who you ultimately want the same things with, you should have a similar timeframe, and you should be going at a pace that’s comfortable for both of you. It’s imperative to find these types of things out early on, so that you don’t waste anyone’s time or your own.
Some other things that you should look for when it comes to finding your best possible match are things like just how well things seem to flow in your relationship. Things should definitely flow for the most part early on and you should feel comfortable being your authentic self with the other person. As well, both of your wants and needs should be met to a certain extent. Things should be fair in a relationship, and never one-sided where only one person’s wants, needs, and desires are met, and where only one person feels satisfied. One of the best ways of making sure that you’re doing your share in a relationship, is by being the best version of yourself, taking great care of yourself, but when it comes to how you treat your partner, it’s important to be giving, loving, and selfless as much as possible. As well, it’s important to continuously think of sweet gestures that you can do for your partner, and to put their needs above your own whenever possible.
Some other things that are essential to have in your best possible match, would be a connection on as many levels as possible, and to make sure that you’re compatible enough with one another. You don’t have to be exactly the same, like the same things, or even enjoy all of the same interests. However, you shouldn’t hate or dislike the differences that you and your partner have, to the point where it bothers you, triggers you, or makes you feel as if you’re completely with the wrong person. You should love and embrace one another despite your differences. And if anything, you should embrace your differences and be open to learning new things, as well as learning and growing from each other. There are many other things that you should have in your best possible match, and I’ve written about many of them in different articles, and many lists as well as to what to look for in your best possible match.
Having said all of the above, when you’re with the right person and your best possible match, a few things should definitely be there. The following is a list of 3 things that you should feel when you’re hoping to take your relationship to the next level, get engaged, get married, and continue on your journey with one another.
Here’s the list:
1. You should desire to grow old with one another.
It’s important to live in the moment and to embrace each moment, each day, and to focus on the now, instead of always worrying about what will happen tomorrow, next week, next month, or a year from now. However, when you’re with the right person, there’s a feeling you get as if you want to grow old with the person, and where you can even imagine doing so.
2. You can’t imagine life without them.
When you’re truly in love with someone and you’re in a healthy situation, and when you just know that the person is your best possible match, you can’t imagine being without them. You tend to feel this way not simply because you’re used to them or because you’ve been with them for such a long time, but more so, because there’s nothing more that you desire in life, than to have them by your side, as your love, as your best friend, and as your partner for life.
3. The feeling grows the longer that you’re together.
When you’re with the right person, one of the best ways of knowing that you should take things to the next level and that this is the person who you should be with, is when you feel more love, more passion, and more crazy into a person now, than you did the day that you met. For many people, with time, the love that you feel will grow. But for many, with time, the feelings that you had for your partner early on diminish or completely go away. In the right situation, the love doesn’t die out the longer that you’re together. If anything, when you’re with your best possible match and the one who you should be with, the feelings grow, the love grows, and even the passion grows with one another. Things change over time, and that’s not something to be surprised about. But when you’re with the right person, the love doesn’t go away, nor does the passion, it intensifies as it changes. You should feel as if your love is growing deeper and deeper overtime, not fading away.